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Launching in New York City

Get on the list for NYC.

Ember is opening in New York first, and it’s invite-only. Join the waitlist and we’ll email your invite code when your spot opens.

What happens next
1
Join the waitlist
Leave your email and tell us where you are.
2
Get your invite code
We’ll email it when your spot opens.
3
Set up your profile
Confirm you’re 18+, accept the community agreement and verify you’re a real person.
Not in New York?
Join anyway and pick “Not in NYC yet”. Tell us your city and we’ll let you know when Ember gets there.

Join the waitlist

About a minute. Only your email is required.

We’ll only email you about your invite. We never share or sell the list, and you can leave it any time.

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© 2026 Ember. Launching in New York City.
18+ only. Consent comes first, online and in person.